Friday, 10 December 2010

He's Now a Big Boy!

Usually we picked up Mrkamahkamah around 4.45pm but not today. We arrived at Illminster Avenue Children Centre around 4.25pm, we thought we could took him home little early today. The children had just finished their tea and they were playing in Sunshine room. Before we entered the room, Anna, the Raindrops team leader saw us and said she had something to discuss with us. This is the first time for us, being called by Mrkamahkamah's key worker. Off we went to the waiting room.

Anna talked about Mrkamahkamah's habits. She said my little kiddo was rather quiet at the nursery which is contra to my observation, he talks like a chirpy birdy at home. He spent his time watching other children playing and doing stuffs. And he constantly asking reassurance from his key worker, especially from Emily. For example, during lunch time, all kids were asked to go to the sink, pressed the foam onto their palms, washed their hands and using the towel to dry up. He didn't follow the rest of the group. He just stood in front of the sink and waited for an adult to tell him what to do. It's like he was afraid doing mistake. Anna said the thing that could be the problem is we often do things for him. She added that maybe for other children, they might have little sister/brother and so they need to be independent all the time, whereas for Mrkamahkamah, he is the only child in the family. So, maknanya?

My baby

 We know that it's our fault. We treat him like a baby. We still make him lie down on the bed while we dressed him up, we helped him to put on his hat, shoes and jacket. Yes, to us he is still a baby. Rasa macam nak mengalir air mata when someone says to us that he is now a big boy. He needs to learn to do things on his own because he is going to join the nursery school starting on this coming January. In the nursery school, they only have 2 teachers per class of 10-15 (children aged between 36months and 48months), I guess. In the Raindrops class, where Mrkamahkamah spent his day right now, they have 7 key workers to look after 16 children (they were all aged between 30 months and 36 months). So, he needs to be independent as soon as possible, at least we need to make sure that he knows how to take off/put on his jacket, shoes and hat . His first day at the nursery school will be on 11th of January and so we have a month to train him to be like a big boy.

**sigh**



I need a new baby I guess. But I know, I have to wait until  my other baby starts to talk and be independent. She is now learning on how to walk and sometimes she falls down and cried. Sometimes she knows how to feed herself, sometimes she needs her father to feed him. She is just 20 months, what more can you expect from her. I guess when she knows how to talk and run, then only I can think about getting a real baby. 


My other baby's name is Nurul PhD binti Mike.



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12 comments:

nurhanzs co said...

tak perasan kan anak2dah mmbesar.. alih2 org lain ygtegur.. sama aaa cam akak dulu.. huhu

wah mimah.. indah sungguh nama 'gegirl' tu kan.. hehehehe.. akak nak letak nama gak aah.. Nurin PhD binti SuBu (bukan SuBo yer) :D

Ms.Lilies said...

Xlama lg dh bwk partner blk umah kenalkan dgn ko


Wuuuuuu amacam?
:p

Hanis MY said...

hahaha comelnya nama ur second baby, a touching post, i never have experience bab ni, jg anak buah adalah tapi anak sendiri belum, also have to wait for my phd baby to grow up too huhu...

afendi ariff said...

hensem macam ibunya jgk...heh!

~ Mamma Olyn ~ said...

Cutenya Mrkamahkamah..:), mmm i pun treat my 1st son as baby too, semua i wat, i lak quite particular, xmo tumpah2 la itu ini..huhu.. yg 2nd tu mmg la, lg baby coz BF, melekat trus kat mamanye ni..sedar2 da besar yea anak2 kita, xpa masa panjang lagi, lps ni da jadi big boy, mamanye senang ckit,kan:)

Cik Lurpak said...

Kak Nita: rasa sebak la pulak both if us bila dicakap yg anak awak ni dah besar.. sobs sobs.. rasa macam, eh kena beranak la esok.. hehehhe


Cantek nama! itu kire nick name la kan.. hehhehe

Cik Lurpak said...

K.Mimi: "Ape!!! Girlfriend? lawyer kah dia? Doctor kah? Engineer kah? Takmau.. Dalam keturunan aku tiada lagi org jadi chef!! Jadik kalau bukan chef, jgn harap!!!" hehehe..

amacam?

Cik Lurpak said...

Hanis: Itu baru anak masuk sekolah, dah touching..kalau anak dah masuk asrama, confirm banjir mommy dia melalak.. heheheh

Cik Lurpak said...

Afendi: Huih, pompuan kalau dikata cute, kire bawah taraf cantek.. kalau dikatakan handsome, mmg cantek gila la.. heheheh.. i like! Thank u lahh, hehehe..

Cik Lurpak said...

Mamma Olyn: Mmg that's the biggest mistake we as a Mommy selalu buat.. kite nak bersih and kemas aje, that's why budak2 takut nak buat sendiri.. so sama-sama lah learn to see messy things.. heheheh

aliaaroslan said...

"binti Mike". mari settlekan beliau dulu..

saya pon kengkadang lupa yang botak ni ialah 11 tahun. basuh pinggan pon tak kasi. huhu~

Cik Lurpak said...

Aliaa: Yes dear, kena selesaikan apa yg patut dulu..

Buli saja Botak itu, heheheh

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